"Trolls, darling, it's in our blood. I know, for example, that you're the most amazing wilder gal and quite the warrior, but I do wish sometimes I could grab a shiedl an leap in front of you. If it's okay with you, I'd like to invite Gerd to dinner at our house sometime soon. Show her a bit more support.. she expects it from folksat the lodge I know, but invite into our home might send a signal. What do you think?"