A thoughtful look, "I don't want you to feel scared to be near me. And when you run off without telling anyone where you're going, what else I am to think except you think I'm another bad one? Another person who mistreats you? I don't want to see me that way, Dagmar. Not ever , but if you do, if you see me as the same as those who hit you and called you shit, then I need to know."