"In the stories, some mortals would take a Selkie woman's ccoat to keep her from returning to the sea, maybe even make them marry them..though in some cases the mortal really did love the Selkie but was afraid of losing her to the sea instead. Banality I suspect is the curse in these times. It's said that if you destroy a Selkie's coat, you destroy their fae soul. So they are very protective. Very romantic kind of guys and gals, Selkies but sort of sad."