"Not just that, " the Squire said, "Your people need you nearby. Even be fore your saining, folks will be counting on you to lead them if the Baron gets too ill or weak to continue. Death means he gets replaced, but if he's just incapacitated? then sained or not most will defer to you. You can't desert them for selfish reasons, not even love. Or the Count will rush in his replacement while the Baron is just 'sick' call him a 'temporary regent' and by pass the whole thing."