"First thing to remember? your parents love you, and they are on your side. Your dad is gonna be shaken a bit, but he doesn't think less of you, he just doesn't..can't completely understand. your mom can because, well, you and she are both women. Your dad He.. he's really openminded... but you're changing, and he doesn't know how to roll with that..." A gentle smile, "you just have to go easy with him, don't lie, but don't overshare. THAT was my mistake with them at times.... if you see the difference between honesty and overshare?"