"Then we don't but I will tell you this... if someone hurt you or wahtever, under the guise of a date? It sure as hell is not weird to not want to risk that again. Sounds sane to me. I think one day you will date, when you'r ready and when you find a fellow or lady you can trust... but weird that you don't want to ? no. HEck, it might never be something you want to... rare, but rare things aren't weird. They're often the most precious stones in a world full of rocks."