"No," He says "Not that he ever considered me a potential equal but by his example I saw how to act dishonorably, and disguise it as faux honor. He gave lessons on manipulating and enticing, then having his way. What he wanted me to learn mostly was how to fight, and fetch, and shield him. I guess it's the Beltaine speaking, but I'm pretty revolted about some of the lessons now that I look back. " Honestly "Sure, it gets a guy what he wants in the short term maybe, but love , beauty, and honor are the best ways to encourage a gradual opening... a mutual joy. " He slides one of his hands into her fingers "Don't you think?"