She asked if I ever showered upstairs.. now I've tried ussing theo ne downstairs so I don't have to haul her 'sitting stool' out of the hall one every time, or lose half the space. the downstairs bathroom has a toilet that doesn't work for shit (or on shit) , a rusty faucet, and a shower that's so shallow that it creates a small pond next to it when I do shower, but I deal with it because it's nice.