"Maybe you do...perhaps it as as simple as telling her she has a right to be happy. Perhaps inform her that not only is her hiding her light for the sake of others not helping others, but rather if they knew it would distress them. My 'parent teacher conference' with the Kings was interesting. They have their doubts and concerns, but I can tell you this much. Those two want nothing more than their daughter to be a good person who is HAPPY. Siv's betrayal to her own joy is also a betrayal to you as her teacher, and they as parents. Perhaps there's a way to tell her , elegantly, that greatness is there, joy is there....now shit or get off the pot?"