"Would it be terrible if I didn't want a nanny?" She hems a bit. "It feels too much like leaving Baby to be indoctrinated by some noble-appointed stooge." A quick hand up, and small smile, "I know, I'm exaggerating... but there's also a lot to be said for daycare where they can meet different kids from different walks of life and socialize... maybe they can pay for that, and we can pick the location? I'd rather have US be the primary source of caregiving and learning... and between three of us, and grandparents, I think we can manage."