"I admit, I seldom think of my host these days. Perhaps as I've aged, the dividers between he and I have faded, and I no longer feel it as sharply as on arrival. His boyhood memories remain... it may be that with a mortal family intact, you will retain those ties longer. My host mother remarried some decades ago, and host father has his own pursuits. We seldom speak." Thoughtful. But, not to be too long distracted from the direction of his initial thoughts, and finally asks,
"I beg your pardon if this is an intrusion, but I must ask - what is your current relationship to the Dame? If she is not bound to you as a vassal - you are... friends?" An unasked clarification hangs in the air.