"Call it an unseelie urge, or a husband's pettiness. But if you want to take the high road? Remember the name of the person who listened to you there, the one good person, I'm assuming there was one, who didn't mock, belittle, or make you feel like shit and actually helped you hold on or even gave you the out. Send a netural decline back, then praise that person. Send a message in the message thanking that person for everything. Evden if theyr'e not at Candy anymore, it might drive the message to Candy THAT person is who they should have been like"