"One can never be sure one isn't in the great dance when one steps before a sidhe, Dame," he says almost making it sound a boast "We are master of politics, yes, even House Dairann, but the burden, and I do not mean slight, would be more on her than you. If you accepth er invitation and go under her roof, if you have done her no wrong? She would bleed for you and any insult to you would be insult to her. We take hospitality VERY seriously"