"I think it depends on approach, if we tell Adam 'well you're weird and no one wants you full time', or even hint at that- he seems sensitive by nature, he'll be rightly upset, but if we explain we think this way works best for him because we think it is not only holistic, but because he seems talented enough and already trained enough to have TWO mentors or more.. then he might accept it. Besides, it's not atypical for houses, like freeholds, to have lessons from various tutors. My fencing master did not teach me poetry"