"Tis simple, feigning love is wrong, even if you mean it to make another feel better...perhaps especially. If neither of you love the boy, you should not pretend to be his mother and father nor should you feel forced to. He will resent it, he will hurt, but better he feel pain brief and sharp than the slow cutting on all invovled of living a lie of love. It would be a betrayal of self as well as him. "