"Dad." She says "not consciously, no. But subconsciously, it's possible. I have teased Sylvi about her bouts of Vanity, but I have my own form of vanity. One based not on looks, but approval.. and worse, it can turn into resentment. I am learning to check it, but I had to learn about it to check it. You want to protect me, but you see me with a father's eyes. " But part of her is pleased and she kisses his cheek as if complimented