Gerd looks her over, then with a more mature voice than sounds right on such a young person, "She needs you less, and that was the goal, but it hurts and it gnaws anyway .. " She touches the roof which heals before them like the magic it is, "And both your daughters need you still now and then... if they dont' let priide get in the way. You never met MY folks, but they'd probably join you for coffee and nod.. a LOT. " Fond smile at some memory.