"I see that. We see what older folks in our own life have done, and we respect them but we don't want to ..be them, not exactly. Not that we ever could but... "A nod . Siv says "Sometimes I feel rather insecure I think. Mom is a legend, dad maybe less famous but still a hero. Sis is..well, she saved a hold and fought balor. It's a hard thing to be in that crowd. With you? well, your family seems to have more expectations of your mortal life than your changeling one if I'm hearing right? But even if they want what they say is best for you doesn't mean YOU wanat it, or at least not the way they do"