"Respect those of Higher Station : Now some of the sidhe assume this means we automatically kiss boot on some guy because of his or her title. But you can respect someone, and disagree or even deny. And higher station must not just be EARNED, it must be continually earned. A leader earns thier station by action. IF they get lazy, then a people have a right to ask "What have you done for me lately?" and they can keep the title, they might even be able to order around, but they're not entitled to respect anymore. That's not just sidhe though. I don't care if it's a Troll Chief, a Redcap Corby Leader, or a sluagh spinster who leads a tea circle. If they've worked and earned that spot, you should give them their due. This is a hard one fo me, L ike to test folks. But... respect? Yeah, always a work in progress. Obeidience is easy, respect is hard."