#ooc

Okay. My Housemate has spoken with her mother's doctor. B is not expected to survive this episode. They're doing all medical care they can as long as B is also comfortable. A funeral home has been called. Cousins are in process of being called. Her brother is on the way today and maybe staying at the house if he needs to.

It has been a long goodbye. I'm so sorry for the pain involved for all. Please let them know I pray for them.

I will.

I'm so sorry to hear that, D

And I know how hard things got for a while there, when he brain was doing bad things which made it hard

Yeah. I feel like an ass, but in some ways I think if she goes quickly it will be a mercy for her.

agreed

dementia is a bitch

B's son will be here in about 4 hours

How are funeral plans for your Aunt coming along?

Ok, lunch achieved.

Everyone, remember to hydrate and get your loved ones to hydrate too. We're all apt to neglect and forget.

I just got the dog water in fact! 🙂

That's half the battle!

She's being cremated, and the memorial service will likely be after new year's

it seems that she went a few days before she was found 😞

Oh dear. That's hard.

Oh dear

Well, that's not uncommon I'm told

Not that fact helps 😞

nope

is what it is

Sorry folks, much going on here with clean up and planning

and we have B's son coming over

so I am gone

schedule unsure

zzoom

"Schedule unsure." Brother, you said a mouthful.

Yup

Okay. We had dinner etc...

Housemate and her brother now at the hospital

oof

Ramona is in FULL GOBLIN MODE tonight

I have had to retrieve the mouse more than once from the floor

She does know it's the wrong sort of mouse for her hunting right?

Ah who am I kidding. ALL ARE PREY when she's in Goblin mode 😉

hee

Okay. Friend is back. Her brother is in town, so is his family so we may have guests show up any time and obviously we're not gonna say no

yeah

in for a lot of chaos

and I know you can't say much, and it is okay for you to be stressed/cranky on the inside

we're here!

you can vent!

Thank you. Hug I probably will need it. B is not dead, but they think it will be soon, but soon could be this minute, or 3 days. THen a funeral around or on Chrstmas would suck for my housemate. And I might need to go to my parents earlier and longer, which would be sucky on a personal level

Yeah, it's a lot

and hospice care is just stressful

My Housemate is actually wondering if they can bury her mom quietly sooner, then have a memorial in January

but this is the South, funeral home probably won't go for that