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December 14th, 2022
shadylady 8:44am
☕
earldebuke 11:57am
Okay. Christmas arrangements made
shadylady 11:58am
To the good?
earldebuke 11:58am
To the tolerable
shadylady 12:48pm
That's not nothing.
earldebuke 12:49pm
My sister is making noise about a reunion of sorts ... but I'm not enthused. I'll see her and her abuser at Christmas. I don't see a reason to make a big family event later in the year that she and he want to host later.
shadylady 12:51pm
I can understand that. It's not -just- a matter of principle, it's a real issue of concern.
earldebuke 12:51pm
And stressful as hell
earldebuke 12:53pm
/roll 3
Roller 12:53pm
@earldebuke rolls 3 dice (diff 6)
Rolls
[1, 5, 10]
Result
Failure
shadylady 12:55pm
Yep.
earldebuke 1:24pm
Woof. my house mate got word, B (her mom) got taken to the hospital ... her Pnemonia isn't any better and it's looking bad. To add to the dark irony, today is my Housemate's brother (B's son in SC) birthday
shadylady 1:33pm
That is so hard. Let her know she, and her family, are in my prayers?
earldebuke 1:34pm
I Shall, and thank you
catnik 2:31pm
my aunt died yesterday, so I suspect that this is going to affect holiday plans
earldebuke 2:33pm
oh geez hugs
earldebuke 2:33pm
Sorry, Catnik 😞
catnik 2:33pm
yeah
catnik 2:34pm
I'm okay?
catnik 2:34pm
I am worried about my mom & other aunt
catnik 2:34pm
and my cousin
catnik 2:34pm
We lost my uncle between thanksgiving & Christmas back in 2020, to covid
earldebuke 2:34pm
Yeah, that will cast a shadow over everything 😞
catnik 2:36pm
yeah
catnik 2:36pm
Kaye was a... challenging person
catnik 2:36pm
But she's family, y'know?
earldebuke 2:37pm
Yeah. nod
catnik 2:40pm
David is my favorite cousin, on both sides of the fam
earldebuke 2:41pm
Those are good cousins to have. "Oh, a sane relation, or at least my kind of crazy"
catnik 2:42pm
Yup!
catnik 2:42pm
But I am guessing there will be a funeral
earldebuke 2:43pm
Yeah
catnik 2:46pm
The holidays make the timing uncertain
earldebuke 2:46pm
No set funeral date yet I am guessing.
catnik 2:58pm
yeah
catnik 2:58pm
not sure if they're going to need an autopsy or not
catnik 2:58pm
she died at home & was found
earldebuke 2:59pm
How old was she again?
catnik 3:01pm
1945 so... 77?
earldebuke 3:08pm
Older I get, the further away 'old age' official starting line moves.
catnik 3:16pm
yeah
catnik 3:16pm
she had some major health issues, so it's not a surprise, per se
catnik 3:16pm
it's rough, because there had been some tension/fighting over christmas celebrations & visiting
earldebuke 3:20pm
😞 I feel that.
catnik 3:23pm
yeah
catnik 3:23pm
Kay wanted to come out, but we were resisting because of her medical issues/alck of space/Kay was a difficult person
earldebuke 3:26pm
Sounds like you were right to worry about her medical issues.
catnik 3:32pm
yeah
catnik 3:32pm
we don't yet know the cause
earldebuke 3:32pm
So maybe an autopsy, maybe not.