"I think I understand you mean well, but I fear, eventually, if you do not take sides on behalf of your own allies, your allies will feel you're not on their side at all. You're a powerful woman, Countess, with a will of steel, but you will not be able to sway the common kithain that not only should they embrace friendly nunnehi, but that they should show repeated forgiveness to ones who work to kill them, their friendly nunnehi allies, and their rulers. You are OUR ruler, and they expect ... not unreasonably, that if you must pick, you'll favor what's good for us over what's good for the ingrateful threat. You may not like our limitations, but you cannot force empathy"