She shakes her head "I speak of the unseelie nobles, those of houses, and ... no, you did not always make it welcoming for them. You diverted them elsewhere, you refused them, and when they were allowed, they were watched like hawks My Betrothed told me this, and he was not alone in this view. Furthermore, your parentage is also a source of distrust, though I am not one to believe you should be judged negatively so."