"You.. you said it yourself" Vaeltilde says nervously "The Countess I mean... we need harmony, unity, and what sort of message would it send to NOT eat together too? Are Childlilngs not changelings? Clearly we are so.. to send the right message of harmony, and to please Countess Jessica, it is almost required lest we not only insult a guest, but defy her vision rudely. "