He sips his tea. "I said, I would like to know how we got here. I'm sorry I'm slow about these things. I don't think it comes as naturally to me as to you." He means both ladies. "As far as I know, it started when I suggested we use the downstairs room at the house...." the Rachford's married residence "... to host, ah, each other when we wanted to be together... and Leonora, you seemed to find offence at that."