"Well, there's that. But I know him, and I know..well, let's just say I've an interest in the matter though no, that doesn't give me automatic access to your romantic interaction" A concession, "And I sure got no right to tell you how to work a romance as I'm still unsure of my own, but...what can I say, I want August happy, and if you're the way for him to be happy I want you to be happy too. But if what's going on is making him race off while still wounded and thus avoiding healing or even balefire tending, then it becomes a medical matter... maybe more for a therapist than a patcher of bodies. But it does, in the area as a healer, involve me, and that one other area.Just saying, he's ssounding self destructive of late. Earl had to enchant him earlier...nearly forgot himself about a week ago."