"Because it would have been a mistake" Sally Mae says, causing the old women to stiffen, but before Agnes can cut in, "It'd be a mistake, because at the time everyone was worrying about you, sick to worrying, scared that you weren't going to make it, the last thing I need to do was remind them how NO One cooks those better than you . The last thing I needed to do was feed their sense of helplessness when I was supposed to fill their bellies." A beat " I know what I'm doing."