"You got that right, young lady, years go passing day by day," He admits to both, "If you don't mind a bit of unwarranted advice? Make sure they never feel too trapped with just one or two choices only before them. IT makes the rebellious one shoot off road into dangers you never thought of, and the one that's eager to please you secretly miserable. I know I made that mistake. Better to offer them a lot of paths ,see what they're called to and cheer them on as they chase their dreams."