"It is, and it isn't." Marigold admits. "You're something special now, called a Changeling. That means that you have both a fairy soul, and a human self. Both are important, but very different. Mortals - normal folk, can't see our Fae selves without special enchantment, and that's tricky. Even with enchantment they may not understand or approve, and it's not healthy for them to spend too much time thus. Many Changelings manage to stay with their families, but it's a bit of a double-life. Others, they come to live with Fae mentors, and we cover for them to explain to their family why they left."