Zane says "Wrong" ANd looks at Dame Ash, "I got this, Dame Ash. I have a little sister" And he looks down at both girls "I'm going to tell you two something you don't want to hear. Sometimes, when folks tell you no, when you are held from something, what folks are saying is 'they care for you, and will not let you come to harm' and 'you are not ready for this YET'. There is a wheel, a cycle, a turning, and you are not at the right part of it for somethings. I am. That is not a plot against you, or even unfair. It is what we all go through. It is life. It is time. It is the way. And all our protests, or complaints, or even barbs, do not change that. You will learn this, Salma of the Thistle tongue, when you yourself take up the tasks of being a wizardress. You will understand."