"I'll never like her." A pause, not defensive—just matter-of-fact. "But I've learned to respect her. Nadeen isn't necessarily kind, at least to me, but she's... fair." Something he might never admit in public.
Thoughtfully. "No one’s a single thing. Not a person, not a kith, not even a House. Varich has shadows, sure... the winter sun casts a pretty damn BIG one in my opinion... but that doesn’t mean every scrap of their past is poisoned."
A small shrug. "Just because it might be one of theirs doesn't mean it's about that particularly nasty character trait. And if it is—" A wry, dry look. "I've handled worse."