"Because, " Siv explains "I suspect if they wanted me to know they'd have told me what they were up to in California AFTER a visit to Mexico. I suspect Jessica is involved, and Jessica doesn't want me in her biz.. and mom and da apparently didn't want me to know what they were up to either or they'd have texted me about it, a head's up. If the Chief requests, I can ask without feeling like I'm pushing on where I'm not wanted. If I do it on my own...well" A shrug "I am not griping, but I don't really want to be a pest for me own sake"