"Forgive me, Hearth, but am I wrong? Sidhe rule for many reasons. Some benevolent, a few malevolent ,most in between, but you trolls do not enjoy the challenge of rulership as we do. most trolls see it as a task, a burden sometimes, a means to the end of protection. You come closer to enjoying it than many, but you shy away because of terminology. There is joy in organizing, in watching those taking your lead thrive under the vision you have won them over to. It is the titles and pomp and cermony that alarms you because you have seen that side used cruelly. But YOU will not use it cruelly. Focus on what the better sidhe do, the pleasure and pride leadership brings in whatever style you pick. Be it Gwydion Noblse Oblige, Fiona Egalitarianism, or what have you. Find what will make the position a JOY to you. Even the most cold hearted Varich ruler is ALLOWED to be happy"