"Well, let's see. If William marries Joceyln, they inherit lands titles and horses... now, I don't see William putting away his armor just because he can. He enjoys the joust. Means he'll gonna need new armor. What's more, Kate's armor has been proven a winner. Her services will go in demand. She can raise prices, hire young girls as apprentices, and live very well. It's possible that her workshop will be sort of like your idea for a haven, and she will have many children not born of her, but still precious to her, her daughters of the forge. Now maybe, MAYBE, she finds another person to marry...maybe not, but she's bound to be doing fine in a lot of ways with her friends and her trade."