"Sounds to me like you did fine. Look, Storm is in charge of security more or less, or at least battle, and the Chief is the Storm so you might want to ask her, but from my view, you got a shifty seeming sidhe on mysterious business whose hiding something...you used your best judgement and felt something hinky was up. She didn't ask for Haven, which would be her only card to play to demand any RIGHT to the place... and you weren't hostile about it, just guarded. I would say it's okay you didn't swing open the doors and offer her a coke"