"Struggling may not be the right word, but..." Tove pauses "Your daughter is at times overwhelmed by it all and she doesn't want folks to see that. You and Olgar have given her so much, and she KNOWS that...and like a lot of daughters, at times resents the idea that she hasn't earned what she has. It's a ...a duality. Father relied on me so much in Thyle I was a world away in more than one ways, but Sylvi.. .and understand this is just my view, Sylvi isn't concealing things from you because she doesn't love you both, far from it. She wants to make you proud for what she DOES, not just what she is. But... well, you already know what you can do about that. Be there, ear ready, let er know you're there if she wants to talk. Though I wish you better luck with than with Dagmar and I. I have annoyuing habbit of wanting to dispense wisdom when I should just shoosh and let her talk or not talk"