If I understand correctly, and of course Fae society may differ from traditional mortal, then duels, particularly those fought under the
code duello, were as much about symbolism and social standing as they were about actual combat. The primary purpose of a duel was to defend one's honor or the honor of someone under one's protection, such as a lady.
If someone insulted your lady and you challenged them to a duel, the challenge itself was often seen as an assertion of honor. By demanding satisfaction, you demonstrated that you would not tolerate the insult, which in many cases was enough to uphold your and her reputation, regardless of the outcome.
I mean, if you lost (esp if killed, ๐
) it could be seen as a sign that your cause was weaker, at least in the eyes of some. HOWEVER, merely having the courage to fight was proof of honor, and losing did not necessarily mean your lady's honor remained stained. It was the willingness to risk yourself that mattered most.
Of course, if the winner gloated or continued to spread the insult, another duel could followโsometimes involving a second or another champion.