oh I can't wait for Gwen to tell Thistle, with a straight face, "Just because someone is having a hard time with some part of their life, doesn't mean it's YOUR fault because you can't help. It's not your duty, or your obligation to make it right, so just ease their way and hope they can find the path they need. See, there's an old Amerind legend about..." Blah blah missing irony entirely