Yup. I feel like the hard ass because I'm like "B's son is a Grown Ass Man. B's daughter in law is a grown ass woman. Yes, B's son's job sometimes requires travel, and I feel for both of them, but B's son is the one who PUSHED for B to get more care... saying he'd take care of her half the time. THEN he got a good job offer in another state and went. He had good reason to for his family, but the point is he broke his promise. Then he said he'd take her so often... but thanks to Covid and other things, that's proven to be not the case either. I feel for BIL's wife, but you know the 'For Worse' part of the vows? Dealing with the mother in law from hell for two weeks every four to five months is part of the 'For Worse'"