#ooc

She's a romantic.

She is. 🙂 But Nadeen admits it's her ambition that's to blame, not Dagmar

BUT...she also realizes Nadeen and Dagmar might not be the right pairing.

Dagmar LIKES Nadeen. Dagmar isn't ready to be truehearts - and Varich can't!

this is only her second time dating

Yup.

Yup!

Siv is going to be "Can't win them all, Aunt Kerri"

And Dagmar deserves to look forward to being truehearts to somebody someday.

YES. Kerri and Siv may have to do a debrief on this.

BUT...I need to sleep soon.

like she told Siv, she guesses she wants what Tove & Jaymes have, or Kerri & Olgar.

She does.

Good night, Rahne! thanks for all the RP

Oh, I'm here a couple of minutes more, yet, but not too long.

One thing that Dagmar hasn't really seen with Kerri and Olgar is that there were MANY years when Olgar would be away for MONTHS.

It took them a long time to really admit they were in a committed relationship.

Yup. Dagmar and Siv get a view of the result of hard work, not the hard work itself

Yup!

Dagmar is still learning what healthy relationships are.

And she does need to learn to draw boundaries.

Oh, she definitely does. She needs to learn that she has the right to boundaries.

Siv tried to point that out

Yeup. Which I don't think she realizes. She's so scared of losing something if she says no.

but Siv, bless her, does not have the deftness of Kerri

She hoards people like she used to hoard food.

Yup!

Oh, Siv's good. It's just different.

Yup. Siv isn't a role model

This is why I settled on Beast for her unseelie.

The teamwork is good.

Very possessive.

Makes sense!

Yup. Siv got Dagmar to Kerri.

The Protectorate passing-game.

Yup. At the cost of one of Kerri's muffins. Damn, it's hard to be a Love gangsta

I'm sure Siv will get her pastry

Maybe she trotted over to Tove and got food there 🙂

heh

I just have this image of Symon and Dagmar going to Vali and him saying "now, chop this tree down.. with a herring!"

I'm just really, really relieved that there's not another tragic heartache in Dagmar's life right now.

and they'd exchange a look Well, we have to kill him now /Can we do it slowly?

LOL I can see this.

Nadeen responded really well, yeah

Less pressure.

I think for Nadeen it was partly the sense of exile that had her stressing. For an arcadian sidhe who has lost paradise... it probably had an echo she didn't like.

Oh, hell yes. If Nadeen had said, "Well, you're being completely unreasonable" Kerri might have had to slap a bitch.

And she did have to have some things spelled out for her

Dagmar is easy to spook.

Now, she's ready for some good old fashioned monsters to slay.