#ooc

She has some self esteem issues, even though she's come a LONG way. And she never said a word when he flirted with every single girl, so that's on her

And it's ALSO on her that him being nice and flirtatious spooked her

So Dag's issues are her issues.

True.

And, he flirts pretty indiscriminately. Not like he -didnt- flirt with Dagmar.

Yep

Which is why I said it's on her that she got hurt, and her that she didn't tell him it bothered her.

Instead, she bottled it up until it turned into the break-up and she really can't articulate why him pushing her to "say it" left her so upset

it is all delicate and touchy turf. She isn't about to pursue "dating" again anytime soon.

Adam did not want to be squished like a grape...

But you understand why she's upset, from her perspective?

She's not mad at Adam. Or blaming him. But it's sore. And that he just bounced over to Piper so quickly hurts too, even though she's the one who broke up.

Yes, I see it!

Dagmar isn't very good at enforcing personal boundaries, either.

She either gets bowled over, or she ERUPTS, and she's been trying not to erupt.

Back to being squished like a grape....

Yes. She doesn't like being perceived as monstrous. She's not had a great track record there - like the last conflict with Gerd, where she tried retreating. She's retreating with Adam, too.

And she won't talk to Tove about the baby.

Well, he left it in her comfort-court.

He did.

And she'll probably put pleasing him before her own comfort, because it's her baggage, right? So it's her problem. So she'll deal with it. And she'd be a bad friend if she didn't want to spar anymore, and it's her fault anyways because she broke up with him, and, and, and...

Poor Nadeens.

Oh, Dagmar does NOT know how to handle that

Not dating! I think she might try to get Nadeen back together with Zane

But Nadeen is so -pretty-.....

Yup

Oh, Nadeen makes parts flutter. Heck, Adam also does.

Well, Piper and he aren't exclusive......

Kerri's no boggan, but the dynamics on display at this party are FASCINATING.

ha!

Dag is certainly not a Fiona.

Ack...I have all the ingredients I need to make the thing I'm bringing to this party...EXCEPT the toothpicks to hold things together while they cook. Oy. Shopping run.

I would think anyone who's heard about the sheets on Adam's bed would wonder.......

Well, there's a question of how many did hear about those...like, in detail. I don't remember who saw them in person

Piper and Zane did....

Dagmar didn't

Dag, bless, is kind of a prude.

AFK again.

Even if she did swear she'd do whatever Adam wanted if that would help. Someone less ethical could really take advantage of her.

Adam is a horndog but not an evil one.

Yup

The sheets went away though.😣

oh hey, the obsolete man

..... again......

They did

Dag and Adam were kinda doomed from the start

Yep.

Not sure if Dag is ready to date anyone

She is not. If Adam had asked instead of just taking her out she would have said hell no.

I am not dead.