Apparently I ask too many questions about what B wants now. My thought is I need to know. They think I don't and that not knwoing protects me from getting involved with B fall out. I disagree that ignorance only gets me caught flat footed and I have to live with her too. They're frustrated because they feel like they don't get a break from her when I do that and that's true to some degree, but I'm still not crazy about being left out for more than one reason when they do that.