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November 1st, 2019
shadylady 4:26pm
You are good at that.
catnik 4:29pm
I would buy 9th grade
earldebuke 4:36pm
Now if I follow that list... I need a dagger collection . Not sure if I'll stick to that part or not.
shadylady 4:36pm
??
earldebuke 4:37pm
G Largely inspired by that meme Rae shared
earldebuke 4:38pm
shadylady 4:41pm
Ah! RIGHT!
shadylady 4:48pm
We have Gremlins 2 on.
earldebuke 4:51pm
What's black and white and read all over? The Liam Gazette
shadylady 4:52pm
Ha!
shadylady 5:06pm
Ok, that cake is good.....
earldebuke 5:46pm
mmm
earldebuke 7:00pm
Ack. I'm going to go help fetch dinner. Be back around 8. Sorry
robinrahne 7:30pm
waves!
catnik 7:50pm
hi
robinrahne 7:52pm
Heya. How goes?
catnik 7:55pm
dinner
catnik 7:55pm
anxiety bomb going off and trying to deal w/it
catnik 7:55pm
tomorrow is friend's 40th birthday party
catnik 7:55pm
I was invited, I plan on going
catnik 7:55pm
but it is a 5 hour drive
catnik 7:56pm
I am stressing because lots of things
catnik 7:56pm
Long drives make me nervous
robinrahne 7:56pm
Erk. Yeah, I hate long drives. 😞
robinrahne 7:56pm
I totally understand the anxiety thing there.
robinrahne 7:56pm
Will you get to stay over?
catnik 7:56pm
yes
robinrahne 7:57pm
Well, that helps.
catnik 7:57pm
But since I have moved to youngstown - so past five years, it has very much been me doing most of the work to keep friendship
catnik 7:57pm
So.. I've dropped the rope a bit
catnik 7:57pm
So I am uncertain how reception will be?
robinrahne 7:58pm
Mmm. Have you talked about it with her prior to now, online?
robinrahne 7:58pm
Or by phone, I guess?
catnik 7:58pm
She is not very talkative online
catnik 7:58pm
And we don't call much
catnik 7:58pm
because, again, I got a little tired of being the one to initiate contact every time
robinrahne 7:58pm
Sure, that's understandable.
catnik 7:59pm
I am also stressed that my present for her is insufficient
robinrahne 7:59pm
Just to poke at your stance, though...do you think your anxiety might be coming up with a justification about why you shouldn't go?
catnik 7:59pm
possibly
robinrahne 7:59pm
A present is a present. It's a thing that is more than she had before you gave it to her. Presents are annoyingly stressful, but if she doesn't appreciate it, that's her bitchy problem.
catnik 8:00pm
When I bought it, it was intended as PART of a present, but I couldn't find the "right" other thing
robinrahne 8:00pm
Perfect being the enemy of the good?
catnik 8:01pm
shannon is very... blunt
catnik 8:02pm
this has also been a stressful week which has me on edge
catnik 8:02pm
wendy+boss+drama
catnik 8:02pm
wendy and boss each complaining about the other
catnik 8:03pm
plus guilt that my venting about the four year old running about the shop contributed to the situation
robinrahne 8:04pm
Not good to be in the middle between co-worker and boss.
catnik 8:04pm
trying not to be