I love my mom, but she uses me to vent. Which is where I get it from. So I get to dread when she picks up the phone. Mostly becausee sh edoes this 'Call your sister' and i'm like 'Mom. she doesnt' answer phone calls" and she's like "Well text her or whatever" and I'm like 'Mom. No one listens to me. They tune me out. It doesn't help" and she's like "Oh okay..." five minutes later "but maybe try to contact her"