#ooc

...and I feel for her that she has lost a lot of freedom but that's age and her health, not us, and I'm tired of her shitting on folks who are doing their damndest to help her.

exactly

And her behaviour is not making it very easy to want to help her

Oh a few nights ago, she had a crying fit, and her'es the thing, I think it was honest deression.. about how no one wanted her here.

Now no one has said that...

Well, cupcake, you earned that.

but yup, she EARNED that.

By pissing over all efforts to be nice, and acting like a boorish 5 year old.

Every hateful hurtful abusive little jibe... every demanding soul crushing manipulative move...

You WERE Welcome here... and you fucked it up. you and no one else. And if you could treat people like human beings instead of your chrew toys, you old bitch, you might be welcome again, but you dont' get to be Toxic to all that touch you and act like THEY are the problem

Gah!

exactly!

I'm seriously contemplating doing myself in at age 70 IF I live that long because I do not want to do this to ANYONE

well, she is not that old - she didn't take care of herself

my aunt is 74, has had a heart attack, a broken hip, a shattered elbow... and still lives by herself and has an active social life

the broken hip DID land her in assisted living for a few months. I snuck in cheesburgers and reeses cups on the regular

Well, I guess i need to get in better shape. Because I have some problems but i don't want to have them turn me into a monster

My grandmother was totally blind by her 70s, lived with family for over a decade - and was still sweet and loving and wonderful, so...

no excuse

I hear you, though, Mr. D. I absolutely fear turning into that, somebody whom nobody wants to be around, especially when I really need the support.

Yeah. I am single, kidless, likely to remain that way...

Well, given that my kid doesn't talk to me much right now, "kidless" isn't really here or there.

well, in reall life I can already be a jerk without intending so... I don't know. There's an old arab saying, I forget the philosopher, something about how we learn a great deal from the hateful and cruel, but we are rarely grateful for the lesson

Hey, Mr. D., did Clem mean "your expertise" there?

Welllll.... age.

I am learning who I don't want to be

Shacklebreaker

Quick, Make a statue!

She's done this sort of thing before 🙂

...in the Dreaming, of which she has little memory....

it'll come back in the dreaming!

Okay, actually, I need a few minutes to review some stuff. BIAB.

later. .and sorry,- Ladies

no sorry

we are here for you!

Thank you

LOVE YOU, D!!

mmm minus the Shadow Court houses, I wonder what House I should make the lady... i've been flippflopping until now 😉

And should I make her a knight or a Baroness mmm

hm

/roll noexplode 1

Dice say Dougal

The dice have spoken!

He has never had a bad encounter with Dougal before

Ohhhhhhhhhhhh

ha