#ooc

Shady isn't up for it

I have maybe an hour.... I feel bad.

Hey Brekke P!

Hey!

Switching to laptop.

She was gone so quickly....

mmph

BRB me too.

Good grief...so many rooms lit up!!!

I'm sorry I'm slow posting. B is out of the house, and we are having a a bit of a group pow wow. There is serious talk about dropping B's ass back at her old home because B is miserable, and trying to destroy her daughter's sanity too.

B won't last a week before ending back in the hospital, but if that's how she wants it

You need a pow wow. This can wit.

wait.

actiosn have consequences

actions

Seriously. Group Moot comes first.

and if she chooses to poison the well and alienate and abuse her family? Well, you reap what you sow, Barbara.

Oh moot mostly over now. We told the Daughter that whateve she decides, we've got her back

Well, she's not entirely at fault, due to the sundowning...but at the same time, she needs to surrender to reality rather than keep trying to establish independence and dominance. She won't do that until she sees that she genuinely needs help.

Yes, there's a possibility that the lesson will come too late....

She's Seen it before.

But she always unlearns it. Probably the dementia

or stubbornness.

Oh, she's bitched me out in the past, then two days later ended up half hunched over mid fall needing help to stand up and sit down or she would fall. And I helped her. Of course.

And she was more humble for a like 4 days

And then back to narcissism.

Mmph.

I'm glad you're all choosing to support her daughter. I just hope daughter makes a decision you can all live with.

Well, complicating things is that B's Son is moving out of state, and this week has a big opportunity ...so his sis, our room mate, really doesn't want things to come to a head THIS week and ruin his chances/undermine him

That IS tough.

Just a guess...B would likely be far more satisfied living with a "real" family than this communal arrangement.

Her hide-bound bougie self can't handle anything "weird"

If SHE wouldn't do it, it must be wrong.

And SHE wouldn't do anything that's not Normal. My god, B's an Autumn Person

Alas, her son can't. Not won't. Can't.

I've said it before (re: Autumn).

And yes, B is a great role model for an Autumn Person

Well, why "can't"? I mean, yes, moving...but in six months from now....?

Not enough space. Not enough time to care for her.

Oh and the biggest?

B has spent time with them before... and gotten snappish to the grand kids

Yeah, done.

No way are we putting Kids through her shit

Ugh. Yeah, keep it away from the kids.

B needs to lie in the bed she made

at HER house

Her son told his son to pass on a message to B. Itw asn't meant to be offensive. B didn't like it and bit the kid's head off...

Son explained He had said that, the kid was just passing on the message, and you don't treat his kid that way

B acted like she didn't know what he was talking about innocent face

Mmph.