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May 27th, 2018
earldebuke 3:34pm
Heiy Brekke
robinrahne 3:34pm
🙂
robinrahne 3:35pm
For the record, Mr. D....her happiness is not your responsibility.
robinrahne 3:35pm
And she'd be a lot less weak if she participated in activities outside the house at the senior center.
earldebuke 3:35pm
I suppose you are right, but I feel like a host and well, there are rules in my head, a dozen or so generations
earldebuke 3:35pm
my ancestors would come out of the grave and 'git' me'
catnik 3:36pm
hi rahne!
catnik 3:36pm
choo choo
catnik 3:36pm
She is NOT a guest.
robinrahne 3:37pm
Well, sure. I get that. But...she's not a guest, she's a newcomer resident, and she is not doing what it takes to help the house run smoothly (in this case, self-care).
catnik 3:38pm
Yes - she has few communal responsibilities - none, in fact, that I see
catnik 3:38pm
so she needs to manage her own damn issues
earldebuke 3:41pm
Alas I must go get ready for the movie. probably be back in 3 hours, four and a half if B insists on stopping someewhere to eat. Thanks for the support guys
catnik 3:42pm
have fun!
robinrahne 3:43pm
Hugs
robinrahne 3:43pm
Having responsibilities would be a bit help to her, I think.
catnik 3:43pm
yeah, but, well....
catnik 3:43pm
some stuff has to come from her daughter
robinrahne 3:44pm
Oh, sure. But if she doesn't see that mom is not doing well this way....mom's just going to keep doing badly.
catnik 3:46pm
yeah
catnik 3:46pm
oy
catnik 3:46pm
so!
catnik 3:46pm
how's you?
robinrahne 3:51pm
Sorry, wandered away. blush
robinrahne 3:51pm
I'm good. Enjoying the three-day weekend.
catnik 3:51pm
woo!
catnik 3:51pm
when is your last day?
robinrahne 3:52pm
Last day of classes June 11. Last day of work, June 22.
catnik 3:53pm
late!
robinrahne 4:01pm
Well, that's standard for us. NY has two weeks of Regents exams.
catnik 4:01pm
ahhh
robinrahne 4:01pm
And of course, graduation ceremonies.
catnik 4:02pm
PA and OH tend to get out earlier
catnik 4:02pm
and, oy, YSU is SO EARLY
robinrahne 4:03pm
Well, I'm guessing a far greater percentage of farming families.
robinrahne 4:03pm
Upstate NY has a lot of farms, but south of Albany we mostly follow the Manhattan schedule.
catnik 4:05pm
point
catnik 4:05pm
I have mostly lived in areas with strong rural districts
robinrahne 4:05pm
Also, our colleges are already closed.
catnik 4:05pm
yeah
shadylady 6:23pm
..... and then there was silence....
catnik 6:23pm
hey there
catnik 6:24pm
almost done with train. have a good nap?
shadylady 6:24pm
I did. I was out for church, 2 shopping stops, and a lunch. So. Yeah, needed to shut down for a bit. Still not 100% but am functional, if functioning means sitting upright.
catnik 6:25pm
ha
shadylady 6:25pm
Wanna Shabbos? Or not enough choochoo?
catnik 6:27pm
not enough choochoo
shadylady 6:27pm
Ok. Maybe later tonight (but not too late *g*)
shadylady 6:55pm
*sigh* Ellicott City is flooded. Again. Swear to God, someone is going to pay....
catnik 6:56pm
heh