"Am I being completely unfair to him? He.. and I, we've lived together for awhile now. Apartment, and looking for a house now. But ..it's all the same, nd yes, it's been a good same, but if we're going to do the 'he goes off to work' and 'I go off to work' and then later we meet and cuddle then I want him to...call it what it is, or at leawst, I want to know if it isn't what it looks like. Am I unfair?"