"That, and picking the house, she almost fought me when I told her that I didn't really much care about the backsplash on the kitchen. She's been really... I don't know? And I'm sorry it's affecting our work. I was listening her talk about this purple vs a fireblue backsplash and and I said something like it didn't matter, and she asked if anything did? And then she said 'I need you to...' and then she got really quiet, and clameed up. The silence was more confusing than the fussing over the damn backsplash"