"Lovely, now you keep asking me what I want and I DO appreciate that. But what do YOU want them to be? Obviously you can't make a silks purse out of a sow's ear, but no sows here , close your eyes a bit, and tell me what paths would you like to take, who do you want to help us guide them into being. Imagine them three years from now as their best selves, not just for the cause, but for you."